What if Your Cousins Don't E-Mail You Back?
although we live on opposite sides of the world, my cousins and I are very close. however, at times i feel that…(a) they see me in a different light or (b) some of them want to be distant from me.
(a) see me in a different light:
–when i was in hs, i said i wanted to go to this ivy league school. I got into ivy A but not B. later they chided me for "bragging" i wanted to go.
–told them i had worked for several years for a respected computer org. they were surprised i had been working that long for the company.
–after visiting last, i told them i had gone skydiving and scuba diving, and they were surprised i was even into those thigns.
feels like they look down on me.
(b) want to distant themselves to me
so one of my cousins…it’s hard to tell.
when i was in deep trouble at work and with my relationships, she was always there to give me advice.
but all the other times, when i visit, she never wants to hang out, and when i say she should come visit me, she’s always giving excuses.
*that and she doesn’t return e-mails often!!!
sometimes i get the feeling that *some* of them are jealous. or maybe not jealous, but envious a bit. but they are one of the few ppl i don’t fight back about.
i *do* like my cousins. i *do not* find them annoying. i just want to maintain our close relationship, and am just nervous when i feel the bridge is in disrepair. =(
I have cousins like yours. They are all weird and annoying. IF THEY IGNORE YOU, JUST IGNORE THEM BACK. They think they have more friends than you and do not need to talk with you….
your all cousins are bastardss ……… stay away from them, they r jealous.
Dont worry. If they are as close as you say, they’ll email you back. It may take long, but how often can we respond to emails RIGHT away? And don’t worry about how they "see you in a different light" or "want to be distant from you". Maybe you should visit them. When you see family, you become really close
who cares about them! get over it!